Comments for Hope Dies Last http://hope.gr love.dreams.life Mon, 21 May 2012 18:52:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on Inappropriate crushes by Eleni Zoe http://hope.gr/inappropriate-crushes/comment-page-1/#comment-16410 Eleni Zoe Mon, 21 May 2012 18:52:46 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6031#comment-16410 I think there's a difference between the crush I have on say...the much younger and much hotter barista who I have nothing in common with and a crush on a cute man who is on the same wavelength as me. The one I can fantasize about with no problems and will never act on it. The other has potential and fantasies will inevitably lead to me wanting more...despite his nonavailability. And that will lead to great frustration on my part. Nah, I love my no-potential crushes but the one I'm talking here needed to be unplugged. :) I think there’s a difference between the crush I have on say…the much younger and much hotter barista who I have nothing in common with and a crush on a cute man who is on the same wavelength as me. The one I can fantasize about with no problems and will never act on it. The other has potential and fantasies will inevitably lead to me wanting more…despite his nonavailability. And that will lead to great frustration on my part.

Nah, I love my no-potential crushes but the one I’m talking here needed to be unplugged. :)

]]> Comment on Inappropriate crushes by Eleni Zoe http://hope.gr/inappropriate-crushes/comment-page-1/#comment-16409 Eleni Zoe Mon, 21 May 2012 18:46:24 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6031#comment-16409 Well, that's not *all* I did. There was also behind the scene work as I mentioned. "Mental shutdown. Emotional shutdown. Physical shutdown. Social media shutdown. Check. Check. Check and check." I think writing more than one post for a wee crush is an indulgence and just perpetuates said crush into big crush status and what's the point, right? Well, that’s not *all* I did. There was also behind the scene work as I mentioned. “Mental shutdown. Emotional shutdown. Physical shutdown. Social media shutdown. Check. Check. Check and check.”

I think writing more than one post for a wee crush is an indulgence and just perpetuates said crush into big crush status and what’s the point, right?

]]> Comment on Inappropriate crushes by Bathwater http://hope.gr/inappropriate-crushes/comment-page-1/#comment-16408 Bathwater Mon, 21 May 2012 18:30:14 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6031#comment-16408 All we need to do is just write them out? That never seems to work fro me. Or at the very least it takes a lot more than one post to make them disappear. All we need to do is just write them out? That never seems to work fro me. Or at the very least it takes a lot more than one post to make them disappear.

]]> Comment on This is the stuff I find interesting by nashe http://hope.gr/this-is-the-stuff-i-find-interesting-4/comment-page-1/#comment-16402 nashe Sat, 19 May 2012 13:30:35 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6042#comment-16402 Aah! Nice shoes!! (I just know they won't work on my easily-hurt feet, however.) Also, the chia pet can be a tree?? Hahahaa! Aah! Nice shoes!! (I just know they won’t work on my easily-hurt feet, however.) Also, the chia pet can be a tree?? Hahahaa!

]]> Comment on Inappropriate crushes by Danielle http://hope.gr/inappropriate-crushes/comment-page-1/#comment-16397 Danielle Thu, 17 May 2012 16:34:39 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6031#comment-16397 Eh, a crush is a crush, and as long as you don't act on it, you can fantasize about anyone you want. At least thats my take on it. Besides, eventually the novelty wears off and you forget all about him. Or maybe my cynicism has made me crush proof now. Eh, a crush is a crush, and as long as you don’t act on it, you can fantasize about anyone you want. At least thats my take on it. Besides, eventually the novelty wears off and you forget all about him.

Or maybe my cynicism has made me crush proof now.

]]> Comment on Inappropriate crushes by Eleni Zoe http://hope.gr/inappropriate-crushes/comment-page-1/#comment-16396 Eleni Zoe Thu, 17 May 2012 10:18:30 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6031#comment-16396 To be honest, I think I'm there too. My brain is all "Shut it down." and my heart is all, "Eeeeeeh, you can shut it down tomorrow." It's not a perfect system but I think we don't indulge in the crush and romanticize, it's easier to get over it. To be honest, I think I’m there too. My brain is all “Shut it down.” and my heart is all, “Eeeeeeh, you can shut it down tomorrow.” It’s not a perfect system but I think we don’t indulge in the crush and romanticize, it’s easier to get over it.

]]> Comment on Inappropriate crushes by Eleni Zoe http://hope.gr/inappropriate-crushes/comment-page-1/#comment-16395 Eleni Zoe Thu, 17 May 2012 10:16:23 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6031#comment-16395 Yes, it's nice to be able to get along with men especially since I've never really had friends that have been boys. When enough time has passed, he'd be an awesome friend. Yes, it’s nice to be able to get along with men especially since I’ve never really had friends that have been boys. When enough time has passed, he’d be an awesome friend.

]]> Comment on Inappropriate crushes by Eleni Zoe http://hope.gr/inappropriate-crushes/comment-page-1/#comment-16394 Eleni Zoe Thu, 17 May 2012 10:14:23 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6031#comment-16394 It must be the age...right? As for a ring design, I think that just a simple band would be awesome. It must be the age…right? As for a ring design, I think that just a simple band would be awesome.

]]> Comment on Inappropriate crushes by Eleni Zoe http://hope.gr/inappropriate-crushes/comment-page-1/#comment-16393 Eleni Zoe Thu, 17 May 2012 10:12:48 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6031#comment-16393 I have never tried online dating but I think that if you're having a hard time meeting people in a more traditional way it is something to consider. I have never tried online dating but I think that if you’re having a hard time meeting people in a more traditional way it is something to consider.

]]> Comment on Inappropriate crushes by Eleni Zoe http://hope.gr/inappropriate-crushes/comment-page-1/#comment-16392 Eleni Zoe Thu, 17 May 2012 10:10:46 +0000 http://hope.gr/?p=6031#comment-16392 You hit the nail on the head. I'm so ready for a real relationship, but I'm still so scared. But I think the only way to get over that fear is to waddle into a real relationship, don't you think? You hit the nail on the head. I’m so ready for a real relationship, but I’m still so scared. But I think the only way to get over that fear is to waddle into a real relationship, don’t you think?

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