Comments on: On vicarious crushes

By: scratchth

scratchth — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 06:53:48 +0000

I am not going to be original this time, so all I am going to say that your blog rocks, sad that I don’t have suck a writing skills

By: thinkingtoohard

thinkingtoohard — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 03:37:33 +0000

ohhhhhhhhhhh, i’ve been where you are in this post and it is delicious. enjoy every breath-halting second.

By: Alexia

Alexia — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 16:08:59 +0000

I just read this again and laughed out loud. An epic lunch…

By: Breeza

Breeza — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 18:07:42 +0000

I just had a crush which turned into full on reciprocal like and I got crushed. :( So taking a break from men.

By: nic

nic — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 16:26:34 +0000

Loved this! And it is SO true! Those early moments…

Which is part of my crush too. I have a crush on the memory of who my boyfriend was when we first met nearly a year ago. The things he wrote, how he wrote them. The way he looked at me, the way he kissed me urgently then. It was filled with such hope of what could be between us.

But Life kind of intervened…his job situation changed and affected everything, just everything. We’re still together and working on getting back to where we used to be, but I don’t think we ever will. I feel like the opportunity for such things has passed and now it will never be.

We love each other and that’s more than the mere hope of such things in those early moments…it’s the realization of them. But I still feel a pang for what we were unable to share, for what was taken from us. For who he was and who I was to him.

By: Amy

Amy — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 14:40:32 +0000

My crush is a guy I’ve been seeing the past 4months. But it’s complicated though as we’re taking a mini break so he can sort out some stuff with his exfiance. :-/

By: Rachel

Rachel — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 13:23:56 +0000

It’s funny because I have a crush on this guy for quite some time already. And it’s funny because I know he has a crush on me too, cos we actually talk about it. Yes, I told him I had a crush on him. And he said something about being emotionally attached to me.

But.

There’s always a but :S My crush has a girlfriend, and she is aware of my existence. (gasp!)

But I still have a crush on the same guy. Even after three flings and a quarter of a relationship.

By: amber

amber — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 00:29:19 +0000

He isn’t at all my usual type. Not physically, anyway. He’s quiet and brooding and sort of intense. He’s got gorgeous blue eyes, and they’re gentle. I’m crazy over him, excited and giddy and brimming with hope.

By: Alexia

Alexia — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 22:43:23 +0000

Here’s hoping that one does not get crushed and be like this :( or any equivalent.

Thank you for being the ever lovely you today! x

By: Hope

Hope — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 22:09:11 +0000

Thanks for stopping by, Marie!