Comments on: Mars

By: adorablybitter

adorablybitter — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 22:17:12 +0000

been there, done that… But will think over twice before will do that again…

By: GRSC

GRSC — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 21:46:46 +0000

Nay. At the end of the day the action of sleeping with someone you’re in love with, and sleeping with someone you just met is pretty much the same. So I’d rather restrict it to when I have some sort of feelings for someone, to convey the meaning I attach to physical intimacy.

By: Andrea

Andrea — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 06:15:41 +0000

I’ve had one one night stand before and, while I can’t say I’d never do it again, I can say, with 100% certainty, that one night stands are not how relationships are made.

By: Mae December

Mae December — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 20:48:02 +0000

thank you Hope.

By: Lpeg

Lpeg — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 20:13:17 +0000

I’ve never been able to do it! I sorta had one once, but it was with an old friend, so I don’t think that really counts. And I’ve slept with guys on the first date, but then again, we both knew we were going to date each other for a few months and see where things went…

By: rememberthatguy

rememberthatguy — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 04:07:03 +0000

I agree with leah, although maybe the later is not defined as “one night stand” ….

By: Elisabeth

Elisabeth — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 02:59:03 +0000

I agree, I had a one night stand while on vacation. It was amazing and a night that lives fondly in my memory.

But here in my real life, no. Not for me. I want a guy to respect me and I don’t think that starts with sleeping with him the night we meet.

By: Danielle

Danielle — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 02:15:18 +0000

I agree with Essentially Me, on the vacation thing, but I like to class them up by calling them Foreign Love Affairs…

One night stands is a nay otherwise. The attachment thing is a big factor. Another is, what kind of a guy that you have a one night stand with is going to try to develop a relationship with you? I would think a guy will have the permanent image of a girl being “slutty” instead of actually looking for a relationship.

By: Essentially Me

Essentially Me — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 01:22:18 +0000

I’ve never had one either. Until my vacation in Greece. He was an Aussie and much younger than me. Granted I knew him for a whole 5 days before anything happened, but when it did, it was on the night before I left for Paros.

So, I say yay on vacation and nay any other time. Because I would never and have never and could never have a one night stand in my everyday life.

By: alittlecoffee

alittlecoffee — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 00:12:58 +0000

I’ve had a few one night stands so I know with absolute CERTAINTY that they are not for me. They’re not worth it – I don’t feel that I need to be in love with someone before I’ll sleep with them, but I definitely need to at least like them a whole lot and think there’s some relationship potential there before I’ll jump into bed with them now.