Honey, I’m home

15 Jul

We sat under a canopy of trees in the most secluded part of the Beach Bar. We sat on the ground on large cushions and every twenty minutes or so he would reach out and massage his back before untangling his legs and trying on a different position. Every twenty minutes or so I would then make the obligatory age joke because of the 8 year gap between us. “I shouldn’t have bought you here. You’re old. Want to go sit at an actual table with the orthopedic chairs?”

He stuck it out. To please me, I think.

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Half way through our 5 hour first date, he looked up at the canopy of trees that seemed to enclose us in a moment that defied time and said:

“We could live here.”

“What? Me and you?”

“Yes, Hope. Me and you.”

“How would we do that?”

We then spun a make believe story of our life together, under this canopy of trees.

“We can sleep here” he said pointing to the cushions, “And we can eat here.” Pointing to the wooden table. I’ll go out in the morning and milk the goats for our coffee.”

“But I don’t like goat’s milk. I need soy milk.”

“Honey”, he said in the tone I imagine he would use on our 100th date, “I’m sorry. I wouldn’t know how to even begin doing that.”

I added my own details onto his own story. A vegatable patch. That we could both bring our cats with us and imagine the fun they would have.

“But really” he said his brow furrowed in earnest, “What more do we need?”

“Honey” I said in a tone I imagine I will be using on our 100th date, “I can’t live without my laptop.”

***

On hour four of our date, after we had established that we have more in common than is allowed; after he had used the word ‘fate’ in conjunction with meeting me; after he had labeled himself ‘lucky’ for meeting me, he said:

“So, we moved in together on our first date, what do you think we’ll do on our second?”

30 Responses to “Honey, I’m home”

  1. Cynical psycho 15. Jul, 2009 at 11:04 pm #

    Yeah, I’ll rather do leave a comment:

    Bloody hallelujah!!!

  2. Jess 15. Jul, 2009 at 11:50 pm #

    Yay! So exciting! But… was there kissing?

  3. Erin 15. Jul, 2009 at 11:51 pm #

    I just clapped my hands in glee. I can’t remember the last time I did that, but it felt damn good. Hope, I am ever so excited and happy for you!

  4. xx Nicky 15. Jul, 2009 at 11:51 pm #

    wow that gives me the chills! exciting…

  5. Kate 15. Jul, 2009 at 11:54 pm #

    What a perfect first date!!! So happy for you!

  6. Mae 16. Jul, 2009 at 12:11 am #

    Holy shit dude. Exciting.

  7. Georgia 16. Jul, 2009 at 12:14 am #

    Yes! I’m dying of the adorable cuteness and yayness of it all! I’m so excited for you!
    I have first date tonight (and another on Saturday, but lets not get into that, hm?) and I can only hope it (they) go as well.

  8. adorablybitter 16. Jul, 2009 at 12:14 am #

    How sweet… It can only be more fun the next time… When will the next time be?

  9. Green is The New Dots 16. Jul, 2009 at 12:21 am #

    i just squealed a bit. in my office. for you. so exciting!!!

  10. The place where colors collide 16. Jul, 2009 at 12:22 am #

    awww… that sounds just soo perfect..

  11. Hope 16. Jul, 2009 at 12:23 am #

    Jess: No kissing yet!

    Georgia: Oooo, good luck!

    Adorablybitter: He wanted to go out on Friday night but I’m going away for the weekend. So, probably next week. And I don’t even know how it is possible to have more fun than we had last night.

  12. Megan 16. Jul, 2009 at 12:57 am #

    Yay! So exciting!!

  13. Irene 16. Jul, 2009 at 2:24 am #

    Helloooo!
    Niceee!
    What’s the name of that beach bar? It’s sounds nice!

    filia
    R.

  14. Irene 16. Jul, 2009 at 2:25 am #

    *It sounds sketo :)

  15. imfb 16. Jul, 2009 at 2:45 am #

    Sounds like it went well! Thank God, I need some vicarious romance!!!

  16. flowerpress 16. Jul, 2009 at 4:02 am #

    Yay!

  17. Bridget 16. Jul, 2009 at 4:44 am #

    I am so happy for you. Thanks for giving the dateless single girls hope that someone with a killer smile who will make us weak at the knees still exists…

  18. Princess of the Universe 16. Jul, 2009 at 4:54 am #

    No kissing?! What’s that all about?! ;P
    What a great post/date! I’m so happy for you!
    xo

  19. Joy 16. Jul, 2009 at 9:11 am #

    So so so happy for you!
    This sounds pretty positive ya ?

  20. Dark Cloud Nine 16. Jul, 2009 at 10:48 am #

    wow.

  21. pinkjellybaby 16. Jul, 2009 at 1:52 pm #

    :D sounds pretty good!

  22. heidi 16. Jul, 2009 at 2:36 pm #

    omg, i am SO glad I stopped by to catch up!!!
    THIS sounds like the real thing. Let him love you…
    don’t over-think it, enjoy EVERY m0ment :-)

  23. Akmorph 16. Jul, 2009 at 2:43 pm #

    Sounds such a great date, really excited for you!!

  24. Danielle 16. Jul, 2009 at 3:18 pm #

    This is swoooooon worthy! Oh Hope, you are such a lucky girl!

  25. rondamarie 16. Jul, 2009 at 4:46 pm #

    I’m very happy for you, I hope to read about many more dates with this one, he sounds great.

  26. brookem 16. Jul, 2009 at 6:00 pm #

    ahhh! i KNEW i had a good feeling about this for a reason. i just did a little dance in my chair!

  27. bevchen 16. Jul, 2009 at 6:28 pm #

    Oooh, he sounds adorable. I am so, so happy for you.

  28. accidentallygraceful 16. Jul, 2009 at 10:59 pm #

    Oh gosh! That sounds so perfect and lovely and I might be a little bit teary.

    Must go whisk them away.

    YAYYYYYYYYYYYY!

  29. Lpeg 17. Jul, 2009 at 5:48 pm #

    Ohh wow, he sounds AMAZING!

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