Easy/Hard

Easy: Finding evidence that always confirms that there is something wrong with me

Hard: Taking that evidence and interpreting it differently to conclude that I am just normal

 

Easy: To think  ”I don’t blog for the comments, I blog for myself”

Hard: Accepting that comments aren’t the alpha and omega of my existence

 

Easy: Letting my life pass me by 

Hard: Grabbing it by the (as my mother says) balls and living it

 

Easy:   Writing

Hard: Writing well

 

Easy:  Talking to my friends

Hard: Talking to my friends about feeling left behind as they get engaged, live with their boyfriends and make plans for their combined futures

 

Easy: First dates

Hard: Finding someone who I would actually want to have a first date with

 

Easy: Coming up with the idea for this post

Hard: Coming up with the actual content for this post

 

Easy: To say “I forgive you”

Hard: To mean it

 

Easy: To have good intentions

Hard: To put them in practice

 

Easy: To love

Hard: To be loved in return

 

What are you finding easy/hard?

18 Responses to Easy/Hard

  1. Easy: getting up to go to work

    Hard: fighting the urge to turn around and go back to bed

  2. easy: having a boss
    hard: having an ass of a boss

    easy: shopping
    hard: shopping for clothes i can afford

    easy: having a dream about a dream job
    hard: actually doing it

  3. I can utterly relate to the first easy/hard point that you made. My first thought is always that I’m deficient in some way or another.

    Easy: chatting about school issues
    Hard: censoring myself about things I really shouldn’t mention

  4. Hard: Talking to my friends about feeling left behind as they get engaged, live with their boyfriends and make plans for their combined futures.

    I totally get you on this one! When did everyone decide to get married? Lame, I hate being old.

  5. Easy: Purchasing a plane ticket online.
    Hard: Waiting three months for your departure date.

    Easy: Being in love.
    Hard: Being in love despite that fact that he wears his shoes in the bedroom and clips his nails in the living room.

    Easy: Missing people.
    Hard: Showing them how much you miss them.

    Easy: Moving across the country.
    Hard: Having family in your new city who don’t really seem to care that you are there.

    I’m with you on the blogging for yourself/comment issue. It’s a constant struggle for many blgogers I think! I have to remember that the amount of comments is not truly representative of the readership. I think that is very true in your case!

  6. Great post! Ummm, lets see:

    Easy – Getting to work on time.
    Hard – Doing anything remotely productive once at work.

  7. Easy: Spending every dime I Make
    Hard: Budgeting

    Easy: Sleeping in, nearly all day
    Hard: Finding reasons to be motivated.

  8. Easy: Saying that not hearing from him for two days is for the best and the best way to put us behind.

    Hard: Convincing myself that my words are true.

    Ugh. Boys.

  9. easy- talking to my friends
    hard- making enough time to do so

    easy- to plan ahead
    hard- to follow through with my plans

    easy- to get dressed in the morning
    hard- to pick what to wear

  10. inspired by queen i have to add this

    easy: going to sleep every night thinking that tomorrow i will dress like an elegant/ chic/ put together pr executive

    hard: actually doing it

  11. easy – wanting to lose weight
    hard – finding the proper meal plan/exercise routine and sticking to it

  12. i like the first date one, very true!

  13. Easy: meeting new people

    Hard: actually making something lasting and meaningful out of those aquintances

  14. Hard: Lying awake at dawn worrying and not wanting to get up

    Easy: Getting coffee and feeling it work it’s magic

  15. I’m totally on the wavelengths of Georgia, Rose, and Adorably Bitter…

  16. I’m so with you on the say you forgive and actually forgive.

  17. Easy: Taking a waitressing job to pay the bills and stop being a leech on the unemployment system.

    Hard: NOT spinning into an abyss of negativity imagining everything that could go wrong, which is why I got out of the service industry in the first place…

  18. Just want to say what a great blog you got here!
    I’ve been around for quite a lot of time, but finally decided to show my appreciation of your work!

    Thumbs up, and keep it going!

    Cheers
    Christian,

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