January 2009

I'll never be a good feminist.

I was about to cross the road this morning when I noticed a black, sports car tearing down toward me. I quickly jumped back on the pavement and as the car passed me, the very attractive driver threw me a grin and made a spanking gesture implying that I had been a very naughty girl [...]

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Oh right, I'm single

Despite appearances, ‘being single’ is not one of the first or second or third terms I would use to describe myself. I think about it less than people think I do.  You know when I am actively aware that I have been single for a really long time? When I need to have a medical [...]

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This is how I remember it

It was the fourth time I found myself in the same place as him.   The first time his dirty blond hair had stood out in a room full of dark and hairy mommy’s boys.  The second time, I felt his breath on the back of my neck before accepting the drink he offered to buy [...]

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35 Things in 2008

A new year cannot really feel like a new year until the previous year has been dissected, right? So in a nutshell, this was my year. 1. What did you do in 2008 that you’d never done before? A guy on the second date. 2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you [...]

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